All posts by rabbidiskind

Toldos 5779

Click for this TableTalk

MAINTAINING BALANCE

As Jews, we know that HaShem created this universe for the expressed purpose to pro-vide pleasure for others. With this understanding it follows that He is the personification of goodness. His sole interest is the welfare of others. To this end, He created a world that contains uncountable forces and each force has its counterforce that opposes it. His world lies in perfect balance. Gravity pulls the Earth towards the Sun but it is countered by the centrifugal force which pulls it away from the Sun. This perfect balance allows the Earth to continue its movement around the Sun in a perfect orbit. The same occurs in our stomach when the corrosive enzymes break apart the foodstuff but are countered by forces that protect the stomach wall. HaShem is the Master of balance.

Continue reading Toldos 5779

Toldos 5778

Click for this TableTalk

TAKING THE INITIATIVE

In this week’s Parsha, Toldos, the Torah goes out of her way to point out the greatness of our mother Rivka. In referencing Rivka, the Torah identifies her as the daughter of Besuel from the region of Padan Aram and the sister of Lavan. All these details are redundant as we already know them from last week’s Parsha. The reason it is repeated is to teach us the great-ness of Rivka. In spite of her father, Besuel, who was known as a wicked person and in spite of her brother Lavan who was known as a sly dealer and in spite of the region of Padan Aram which was known as a place of much pagan practice, Rivka emerged a virtuous and righteous young lady. This is truly a great testament to Rivka.

Continue reading Toldos 5778

Vayeira 5783

Click for this TableTalk

WHAT? IMPOSSIBLE!

This week’s Parsha opens with three angels coming to visit Avraham. Each angel has its unique mission. One came to heal Avraham from his Bris Milah, the second came to inform Avraham and Sara of the upcoming birth of Yitzchok and the third came along to continue on the way to destroy Sodom.

Why is it necessary to have an angel to inform of Yitzchok’s birth? There were many miracles that occurred to our people which were not announced prior to their fulfillment. Yaakov’s birth was not announced prior to Rivka’s pregnancy nor were any of the shevatim. Yocheved gave birth to Moshe at the age of 130 years and no announcement was made.

Continue reading Vayeira 5783

Chaya Sara 5782

Click for this TableTalk

CONNECTED TO THE SOURCE

The Torah dedicates this week’s Parsha to the passing of our mother Sarah. Regarding the verse that states that Sarah died in Kiryas Arba, the Ohr Hachaim Hakadosh, goes to great lengths explaining that Sarah dies only in the physical material world but her life continues uninterrupted. The basis of this notion is taught in the Talmud; “Tzadikim, even in their death, are considered alive, and the wicked, even in their life are considered dead.”

Continue reading Chaya Sara 5782

Chaya Sara 5781

Click for this TableTalk

THE BEAUTY OF AGING

Excerpted from a talk from Rabbi Ahron Lopiansky

The Midrash relates the following conversation between Avraham and HaShem. Av-raham turned to HaShem “You told me that I am most beautiful of all people and yet when I and my son enter the city nobody recognizes who is the father and who is the son and they therefore do not know to whom to give respect”, since Avraham and Yitzchok were identical. HaShem responded “With you, old age shall begin”. That night Avraham’s hair whitened.

Continue reading Chaya Sara 5781

Chayei Sara 5780

Click for this TableTalk

THOUGHTFUL ACTS OF KINDNESS

In this week’s Parsha, Chayei Sara, the Torah tells us the story of the search for a wife for Yitzchok in great detail. Our father Avraham sent his servant Eliezer to find a wife for Yitzchok. He instructed Eliezer to take a wife from his own family. He understood that this woman will be the mother of the Jewish nation and as such needed to have the Abrhamatic disposition of sensitivity to the needs of others. When Eliezer arrives at the city of Nachor he turns to HaShem with the request that HaShem guide him in finding the appropriate woman. He begins his prayer with the following introduction. “Blessed be HaShem Who has not discarded His chessed (loving kindness) and His emes (truth) from my master….”

Continue reading Chayei Sara 5780

Chayei Sara 5779

Click for this TableTalk

ODE TO THE JEWISH WOMAN

In this week’s Parsha, Chayei Sarah, the Torah tells us of our mother Sarah’s death. The name of the Parsha translates as “The Life of Sarah”. I wish to dedicate this issue of TableTalk to the life of Sarah Imeinu. In her role of being the first Jewish woman, she set the path upon which Jewish women walk and upon which they build their homes. Although there is much to say about Sarah’s life specifically, I would like to address the role of the Jewish woman in general.

Continue reading Chayei Sara 5779

Chayei Sara 5778

Click for this TableTalk

THE GREAT BANQUET

This week the Baltimore community lost a great man. Rabbi Mendel Freedman, the principal of the Bais Yaakov Elementary School for 36 years passed away last Shabbos. How appropriate it is that this week’s Parsha, Chayei Sara, offers us the record of the life of our mother Sara. I was fortunate to have been Rabbi Freedman’s brother in-law as he was married to my dear sister.

Continue reading Chayei Sara 5778

Vayeira 5781

Click for this TableTalk

UNCALIBRATED COMPASSES

In this week’s Parsha HaShem brings total devastation to Sedom and its surrounding metropolis. The entire region becomes home to the Dead Sea. What was once a lush land is now totally dead. Even its water source turned into the Dead Sea. The prophet Yechezkel tells us that the sin for which Sedom was destroyed was that “Sedom was satisfied and comfortable and they did not support the hand of the needy.” While this attitude of not helping the needy is certainly not a nice attitude, how are we to understand it as the cause of such devastation?

Continue reading Vayeira 5781

Vayeira 5781

Click for this TableTalk

NEVER ALONE

In this week’s Parsha, Vayeira, we find our father Avraham praying to HaShem to reconsider His decision to destroy Sodom. Let us contemplate this request and discover how incredulous it was that Avraham should want Sodom to continue their existence.

The Mishna in Avos teaches us that Sodom’s State policy was “what’s mine is mine and what’s yours is yours” The implication of this policy was that each man is on his own. Let no man turn to his neighbor for help and certainly do not offer help to your neighbor.

Continue reading Vayeira 5781